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Write a thank you note

Write or draw a thank you card for a gift or kindness.

From age 5, children can make a thank you card with a drawing and their name. By 8 they can write a short note on their own. It is a lovely habit after birthdays and holidays.

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Why it matters

Thank you notes teach gratitude in a concrete way and make the people who receive them very happy.

Steps for kids

  1. Think of the gift or kind thing someone did.
  2. Write 'Dear' and their name.
  3. Say thank you and what you liked about it.
  4. Add a drawing or a nice wish.
  5. Sign your name.

How to teach it by age

  • Ages 5 to 6

    Draw a picture and write their name. You write the words they dictate.

  • Ages 7 to 8

    Write 2 or 3 sentences with a template.

  • Ages 9 to 10

    Write a note on their own, by hand or as a message.

  • Ages 11 to 12

    Write thoughtful notes without a template.